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malena hankins: a new degree of supermom

There is no denying that all moms are superwomen. Who else could make a lunch, while finding missing clothing articles, reviewing spelling words with a second grader, loading the dishwasher, and kissing her husband with a smile while he walks out the door? No one but a mom. But, then there are those moms who really take it up a notch. Case in point – Malena Hankins. Not only does this she-woman balance the huge demands of owning the local Aqua-Tots Swim Schools with keeping up with her three children, but she also managed to train for and compete in the 2011 Pan American Masters Championships. In Brazil.

Malena swam for her home country of Ecuador in the race and noted that, “wearing the Ecuadorian uniform just like 20 yearsMalena_Swim ago was priceless!” (note: she’s been doing this for over 20 years!!) And get this, not only did she train, compete and actually finish the races, but she also took home two 1st place medals and two 2nd place medals and set a Pan Am record! Wowza!

In case you were wondering, here are her results:

2nd Place – 200 free LCM 2:23.65

2nd Place - 400 Free LCM 5:01.82

1st Place and Pan Am record age 35-39 – 800 Free 10:18.56 LCM

1st Place age group 35-39 & 5th place overall women (among 197 participants) – 3K 00:42.08 LCM

So, next time the kids are whining, the clothes are piling up, you don’t know what you’re going to make for dinner and you think you can’t make it through the end of the day, just channel your inner Malena – superwoman-extraordinaire!

wendy’s christmas dining room centerpiece

This year, I decided to keep my Christmas palette neutral. I chose to use white, silver, brown, black and green (of course!). I like how the pared down color palette keeps the look sophisticated, yet classic.

For the dining room table centerpiece, the kiddos and I gathered up some branches. After putting them in a big wooden vase and adding a bunch of snowflakes, it adds a perfect winter-y touch.

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I love the whimsy of the angel wings…and the wreaths in the windows make me smile.

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Now for picture overload. (Mostly because I’m really bad at deciding which is my favorite!) ENJOY!

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Let the Christmas merriment begin!

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Wendy is the author of the popular decorator’s blog, The Shabby Nest. Decorating is her passion, and her family is her inspiration. Her goal is to create a warm, welcoming environment without breaking the bank. And she loves to share her ideas with you.

perfect thanksgiving ideas!

Gather up the ingredients so you can gobble up the goods! It’s Thanksgiving week and you’ve got planning to do. Need some last-minute ideas or additions to your menu? We’ve got some awesome (and unique!) recipes perfect for this year’s festive feast.

the goods:

Johnnie Gabriel’s Pumpkin Bread

ingredients:

4 cups all purpose flour

2/3 teaspoon baking powder

2 ¼ teaspoons baking soda

1 ½ teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon cinnamonPumpkin Bread

1 teaspoon cloves

½ teaspoon ginger

½ teaspoon allspice

5 eggs

3 ½ cups sugar

3 cups pumpkin

1 1/3 c. oil

3/4 cup cold water

directions:

1) In a large bowl, sift all dry ingredients together. In another large bowl, beat eggs well, add the sugar to the eggs and combine.

2) Add the pumpkin, the oil, and the water, again beating well to thoroughly combine.

3) Add the dry ingredients to the egg mixture and mix well.

4) Spray 3 – 9” X 5” pans with a nonstick spray, filling about 2/3 full.

5) Bake at 325 degrees for 1 hour. Yield:  3 – 9×5 loaves

This recipe is from the kitchen of Johnnie Gabriel. This tasty bread is sure to be a hit!

Maple-Ginger Glazed Carrots

ingredients:

Glazed Carrots4 pounds carrots, cut diagonally into 1/4-inch-thick slices

1/4 cup water

1 tablespoon grated peeled fresh ginger

3 tablespoons margarine or butter

1/3 cup dark pure maple syrup (such as grade B)

1 tablespoon cider vinegar

Salt and pepper

Chopped fresh parsley leaves for garnish

directions:

1) Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

2) Heat covered 8-quart saucepot of salted water to boiling on high. Add beans and cook, uncovered, 6 minutes or until bright green and just tender. Drain well and transfer to shallow 3-quart glass or ceramic baking dish.

3) Meanwhile, finely chop 2 shallots. Thinly slice remaining shallots; set aside. In 12-in. skillet, heat oil on medium until hot. Add chopped shallots and cook 4 to 7 minutes or until browned and tender, stirring occasionally. Add bread crumbs and cook 2 minutes or until dry and golden, stirring. Transfer mixture to large bowl. Stir in thyme, 1/4 teaspoon salt, and 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper.

4) In microwave-safe measuring cup, microwave milk on High 4 minutes or until milk is warm.

5) Meanwhile, in same 12-in. skillet, melt margarine on medium. Add sliced shallots and cook 5 minutes or until golden brown and tender, stirring occasionally. Add flour and cook 2 minutes, stirring. Gradually pour milk into flour mixture in slow, steady stream, stirring constantly; heat to boiling, stirring. Stir 2 minutes longer or until thickened (mixture should have the consistency of heavy cream). Stir in nutmeg, 1/4 teaspoon salt, and 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper.

6) Pour sauce over green beans; gently stir until green beans are evenly coated. Stir Parmesan cheese into bread crumb mixture; spread evenly over green bean mixture in casserole.

7) Bake casserole 30 minutes or until bread crumbs are golden brown and sauce is bubbling.

This recipe and many more Thanksgiving-themed recipes can be found on Good Housekeeping’s website.

Johnnie’s Frozen Raspberry Pie

ingredients:

2 pre-baked 9” deep dish pie shells – baked according to manufacturer’s directions, or 2 homemade pie shells

1 – 10 oz. package of frozen raspberries, partially thawed

2 egg whites

1 cups and 1 tablespoon sugar

1 tablespoon lemon juice

2 teaspoons almond extract

1 cup whipping cream

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1 tablespoon Framboise – a liqueur (optional)

¼ cup sliced, buttered and toasted almonds

directions:

raspberry pie1) In a large mixing bowl, combine the thawed berries, egg whites, 1 cup of sugar, lemon juice and almond extract and beat at a high speed for 15 minutes. During this time, scrape down the sides with a spatula.  The volume of the mixture will increase greatly.

2) In a medium size bowl, whip the cream with the 1 tablespoon sugar, vanilla and Framboise.  If not using the liqueur, add another splash of almond extract.

3) Fold almonds and whipping cream into raspberry mixture.

4) Spoon into pie shells and freeze.

5) Remove from freezer 30 minutes before serving. Yield – 2 pies

This recipe is from the kitchen of Johnnie Gabriel– a refreshing break from the traditional heavy holiday pies, developed by Alexis Edwards Amaden from The Whitlock Inn.

Have a favorite holiday dish you’d like to share with the rest of us? Post it in the comments below! We’d love to hear about your tasty Thanksgiving cuisine!

meet laura’s “puppies” in st. louis

by Laura Whitlow

Not long ago, I did a little blurb about my adventurous/challenging/almost impossible search for a bra that fit and defied gravity. I realized going in that I was asking a LOT of a bra, but did not lower my standards and pressed on until my boobies were at least 2 inches above my waist and properly confined so as not to jiggle inappropriately each time I took a deep breath. Well, this has presented somewhat of a problem, since I am used to being able to toss them over my shoulder and forget about them.

Today, for instance, I donned a new sweater on my way to the shop to paint since it was rather chilly. Not long after I began working I looked down and saw that I was paint free, except for a big ole smudge on my sweater smack dab in the center of my puppies. This reminded me of a little episode that occurred one year on vacation.

Laura_pegboardWe decide to go to St. Louis one year to The Magic House. Awesome trip!!! The first thing in the doorway is one of those big walls of…um…peg thingies…where you push your hand in and there is an incredible print of it on the other side of the board. Faces have fabulous detail! It’s really amazing!!! They have these boards you can then use to “erase” the imprint by pushing the pegs back so they are level and you can start again.

Well, my kids were all showing me hands and faces and start yelling for me to try. So I throw caution to the wind and step up to the wall. I walk forward and stick my face in and yell for my kids on the other side to “Look at mommy’s face! Look at mommy’s face!” Then I hear this man’s voice on the other side of the wall say, ”Um…ma’am…that ain’t mama’s FACE!” All I can hear is my husband (who was not the man who said “that ain’t mama’s face”) start laughing hysterically.

I run to the other side of the wall and realize with horror that my PUPPIES have reached the wall before my face did and right below the detailed outline of my face is a very realistic and true-to-size outline of my boobs! I start screaming, “Erase it!!! Erase it!!” and Tom is laughing so hard he can barely stand. My younger kids are looking bewildered, whilst my older offspring are searching desperately for another family to go home with. I finally jerk one of the dumb eraser boards away from a four year old just standing there holding it and start furiously erasing everything on the 12 foot square wall, since at this point quite a crowd is forming.

I thought later that I should have just shown them all by turning around and backing into the dadgum board and leaving my hiney print! Needless to say, we have not, nor will we ever, go back to St. Louis.

about the author

Rethunk_profilepic_2Laura Whitlow only moonlights as a blogging comedian. Her day job is refurbishing well-worn furniture and taking pieces from ordinary to extraordinary with a fabulous business named Rethunk Junk.

Here’s a little about Laura in Laura’s words: I am a busy mother of five – four girls and a boy – ages 17 to 6. Luckily I have horrible insomnia so I can paint at night (can you hear the sarcasm?). I have been married for 24 years to an incredible man (in case you’re trying to do the math – yes – I got married when I was five). I never watch TV, love to play the piano and I almost always have music playing somewhere!

reading can be fun…even for kids!

the gig:

ready, set, grab the books and get to reading! LearningRx Kennesaw is here to help promote reading among your little ones during this year’s National Young Readers Week! So how exactly can they convince these little rebels to pick up a book? They’ve got 3 local children’s authors to do the job with a reading and book signing event on November 10!

the masterminds and their creations:

Each of the three authors have inspiring tales and wonderfully crafted stories– check out these fantastic authors and their inspirations:

Andrea Faust, author of “Pennies From Heaven,” looks to inspire change and to empower children to make a difference in the world. She is a wife, mother, sister, daughter, author, entrepreneur and compassionate citizen with a desire for helping children and families across Metro-Atlanta who will inspire everyone to make change happen this holiday season. Faust’s book teaches young people the importance of finding value in the life’s simplest and smallest possessions.Pennies from Heaven

Lisa Shoch, author of “For you, my child, I prayed,” is a freelance writer, children’s book author and illustrator. She is a member of the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators and Children’s Book Publishing online group. “For you, my child, I prayed” is her first published book. She is a stay-at-home mom of three children under five years of age, which can make writing a challenge sometimes. This has been an answer to a prayer and a dream come true for her. She plans on writing many more books in the future. Her book, “For you, my child, I prayed”, is published by Paisley and Polka Dot Press. Her book, “For You My Child, I Prayed” is written as a love letter from a mother to her child, inspired by the children in her life everyday. For You, My Child, I Prayed

Melissa Bell, author of “P.S. Lord…,” is married with three children and a stay-at-home mom with a degree in early childhood education. Her young children are the inspiration for her stories. Mommy’s having a baby, but what will it be? Most children have already decided. Will the dream for this brother or sister be answered? Or will God send another wonderful surprise instead? Find out in P.S. Lord. ps. Lord...

the guide:

Local Children’s Authors Book Reading and Meet & Greet

date: Thursday, November 10 from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.

location: LearningRx Kennesaw, 3420 Acworth Due West Rd., Ste. B, Kennesaw, Georgia 30144

to RSVP, contact Rhonda at 770-529-4800 or kennesawdfi@learningrx.net to confirm your attendance.LearningRx Logo

Quick Tip: Makes for great holiday gifts!

living room progression…thanks to pinterest

My living room wasn’t one of my first decorating priorities when we moved into this house.  It probably should have been because it is the first thing you see upon entering. But since I thought it was going to be the most expensive room to put together, it went on the back burner.

But then after finally figuring out the right furniture arrangement for the space, and having a few other serendipitous things happen to give us some free supplies, the Living Room is actually coming together.  Last week, the Hubby painted one wall this FABULOUS deep gray, Magnetite by Martha Stewart.

Shabby_magnetiteThe wall is absolutely beautiful.  So sophisticated.  It’s going to make the perfect backdrop for a gallery wall.  (We even had our family portraits done this weekend for just that purpose.  I’m so excited! I’ll give you a little sneaky peek later this week.)

And since I have gallery walls on the brain, today I thought I’d share with you a few pieces of gallery wall eye candy that I’ve been collecting on Pinterest.  Oh, yes!  Love that Pinterest!!

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Source: younghouselove.com via Wendy on Pinterest

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Gallery_3Source: google.com via Wendy on Pinterest

Gallery_4Source: primed4design.blogspot.com via Wendy on Pinterest

Gallery_5Source: foundbydomesticbliss.blogspot.com via Wendy on Pinterest

Gallery_6Source: mydesigndump.blogspot.com via Wendy on Pinterest

I’m leaning towards doing a wall with all white frames.  I think they’ll really POP against that beautiful gray.  Hopefully, I’ll have the whole living room finished in the next couple of weeks.  I can’t wait to share it with you all!

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Wendy is the author of the popular decorator’s blog, The Shabby Nest. Decorating is her passion, and her family is her inspiration. Her goal is to create a warm, welcoming environment without breaking the bank. And she loves to share her ideas with you.

Meet Jennifer Nails {our inspiring cover model}

Jennifer Nails is inspiring for many reasons: her kids, their family’s adoption story, the generous way she views life, the wisdom she effortlessly imparts. Here’s a Q&A with Jennifer–LBD/LRW’s fitting “Give Back” cover model.

Jennifer’s Stats

Resident: Acworth, GA

Husband: Jason Nails, account exec at Elanders USA

Kids: Cameron, 12; Emmy, 10; Mia, 7; Noah, 6

Job: Special Education High School Placement Counselor for K12, and an office administrator at CK DanceWorks

Family: Our family is fun, energetic and full of laughter. My kids and husband are silly. We always have something to laugh about!

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LBD/LRW: So, you had two healthy young children, Cameron and Emmy, when you decided to adopt another baby. What inspired you to adopt Mia? What obstacles did you face?

Jennifer: God has changed our lives radically through adoption. He placed a desire in our hearts to adopt even before we had biological children, and after Cameron and Emmy were born we knew that our family was not complete. One thing was holding us back, money. It is quite expensive to adopt.

We went ahead and attended an adoption seminar. After a series of events, it became quite clear to us that we should adopt. We did not know exactly how we would pay for the adoption, but we knew that God would provide and He did.

LBD/LRW: What was it like to adopt Mia?

Jennifer: We moved forward cautiously with an adoption from China, only requesting to be matched with a “healthy” infant girl. Over time our hearts were changed and we changed our documents stating that we would be willing to adopt a child with special needs. We were soon matched with the most adorable 18-month-old, our Mia.

LBD/LRW: Have Mia’s initial health challenges been an issue?

Jennifer: It seems so silly to me that she was labeled special needs. She is indeed special but not what the term implies. She is blind in her right eye due to a detached retinea and congenital cataract. We did not know what to expect when we met her, she is beautiful, amazing and limitless. Mia is truly a gift and a daily reminder of what is important in life.NailsKids

LBD/LRW: And then, once Mia was home, you realized pretty quick that your family still wasn’t complete.

Jennifer: Yes, we came home with Mia and soon realized that we were not yet through adding to our family. We saw a picture of the cutest Chinese boy who needed a family and soon after began the process to bring home our son. The process with Noah really took faith. He had many special needs. Noah had no right eye– it was removed because of a tumor, and we didn’t know whether or not the tumor was cancerous. He also had a facial cleft and congenital missing right nostril.

LBD/LRW: But this didn’t stop you from adopting him.

Jennifer: Not at all. Exactly one year after adopting Mia we returned to China to bring home our 19-month-old son, Noah. He was adorable, and our wild journey with him began! Since coming home, Noah has had many medical procedures, operations and hardships to overcome. A MRI revealed a mass on his brain, after many months of fearful moments he had surgery and the mass was removed. He has had 5 prosthetic shells to prepare his eye for the painted prosthetic that he currently has. He has had a nostril and nasal bridge formed using his rib and ear cartilage and skin grafts. The list could go on and on, but he lets none of it get him down. Noah is a fighter, he is full of life and he lights up every room that he enters. He is a miracle!

LBD/LRW: And, your adoption experience with Noah was…an adventure…right? We heard you guys ended up going straight from the airport to the hospital when you landed–but for your husband, not Noah!

LBDLRWFall11Ä.qxp:LBDLRWJennifer: Oh my, yes! Our plane ride home with Noah was adventurous to say the least. Just minutes into our 17 hour journey home from China, Noah ripped Jason’s cornea with his fingernail.

Cameron went to China with us to get Noah. So all the way home, on the incredibly LONG flight I had an 18-month-old wild baby I had just met and my first grader to take care of. It was crazy. Noah spilt my food and drinks all over the place, and I could not even go to the restroom alone because Jason was out of commission and in a great deal of pain with his eye. So I had to carry my [Chinese-speaking] 18-month-old into a tiny airplane bathroom with me. Fun!

After what seemed like eternity, we arrived at our connecting flight in Chicago. The airplane personal called for assistance for Jason, and they put him in a wheel chair. So off we go, I am carrying an 18-month-old and all of our carry on luggage. We still had more luggage to collect. We went to the baggage carousel and I began to pull off our bags, while holding Noah. A bag came by and ripped off my big toenail. There we were, Jason in a wheel chair and me with a throbbing toe that was gushing blood!

I managed to keep myself together and not cry because I knew that Noah might freak our being newly adopted. I cried one other time while we were in China and he got really upset, so I knew crying was not an option. Cameron and I gathered the huge amount of luggage–two weeks’ worth for four people–and we made our way through customs with all of our injuries. We then made it to our connecting flight to Atlanta.

One perk came out of all the drama: the airline took pity on us and put us on an earlier flight home. I still have no idea how I made it but I did. I guess that is just what a mom has to do!LBDLRWFall11Ä.qxp:LBDLRW

LBD/LRW: I would imagine that this entire process has been no less than life-changing for you.

Jennifer: Our adoptions have taught us so many things. First, God is faithful. He blessed us with four amazing children, and we cannot imagine our lives without one of them. We have learned that God has better plans for us than we can begin to imagine.

LBD/LRW: Life with four kids cannot be calm, though. So, how do you stay grounded in the midst of the chaos?

Jennifer: Everyday is busy when you have this many kids, but some days I need an afternoon cup of coffee and a few minutes of quiet. Also, I like to know that I will have a few minutes when all the kiddos are tucked in bed to chill out and watch a favorite TV show. It’s important to remember that everyone needs a little “me” time. I also like to occasionally grab lunch/dinner with a friend or go to the movies. Of course, I always like to go shopping and get a pedicure!

LBD/LRW: And how do you keep your marriage strong and centered?

Jennifer: Our marriage is very important to us. Jason is my very best friend. We make sure that we talk daily about the things that our going on in our lives. Life can be extremely busy with four kids who are very involved in school, church and other extra curricular activities– but it’s very important that you don’t get too busy to communicate with each other. And, we also make sure that we have time alone without the kids. Jason and I try to have date night at least once a month. Sometimes grandparents will even keep all the kids for the night.

LBD/LRW: Time to brag! Tell us about these gorgeous kiddos.

Jennifer: Cameron is in 7th grade. Has always made A honor roll in school, and he’s currently in all advanced classes. He is a member of the Jr. Beta Club. He plays ice hockey at The Cooler in Alpharetta and Plays Roller Hockey for Lassiter Trojans. He loves to read any novel that is about war or the military and he enjoys playing airsoft. He is also very kind and compassionate. He hopes to return to Ecuador this December with his dad to work in an orphanage for a few days. Cameron wants to go to Georgia Tech and be a Mechanical Engineer or go to school to be a pastor. He has a little while to decide.

Emmy is 10. She has also always made all A’s and is again on the A honor roll. She is an active participant in school. She loves the opportunity to lead morning announcements at school. She is a member of the Safety Patrol and the Book Fair Crew at school. She recently was accepted into the Venture Program (gifted). Emmy is also a dancer. She has been a member of the dance company at CK DanceWorks for three years and is a “Sapphire” this year. Emmy also has a huge heart for kids and orphans. She also went to Ecuador with us this past summer to work in an orphanage. She hopes to have the opportunity to go back to Ecuador this summer. Emmy wants to be a missionary and work with orphans when she grows up.

Mia loves school and has done really well. She has the best sense of humor and is extremely quick witted. Mia is also a dancer and tumbler. She has been a member of the dance company at CK Danceworks for two years and is an “Emerald” this year. Mia is an accomplished tumbler at CK as well. She has mastered many things in tumbling. She loves doing aerials and this week she mastered her back handspring to back tuck.

Noah has also done really well in school. He loves to read and play educational games on the computer. He enjoys riding his bike, big wheel and roller blades throughout the cul-de-sac. He loves to play with his big sister Mia and is often her shadow. Noah takes Boys Hip Hop at CK Danceworks and he plays roller hockey.

LBD/LRW: What else should we know abou the Nails family?

Jennifer: We go to church at Four Points Church. Jason is an elder, and we are actively involved. We lead our first mission trip this summer to Ecuador. We worked in two orphanages and a ministry for street children–it was amazing and life changing. Jason and Cameron plan to return this December and take Christmas gifts to the kids and have a Christmas party at the orphanage. We also have a date scheduled to return to Ecuador with a team this summer to work in the orphanages and LOVE the kids there.

LBD/LRW: Thank you, Jennifer!! Your family is an inspiration, really and truly. We’re honored to be featuring you.

Photography by Captures by Summer. Jennifer’s wardrobe provided by Love Street at Cedarcrest.

lil light o’ mine launches with two mom- and kid-friendly products

the goods:

There is a disconnect between two very important elements of every mom’s life: value-based teaching tools and home-beautifying objects. Sure, there’s frame-worthy scripture-inspired décor containing messages that mean nothing to your child. Then there are child-friendly messages printed on primary-colored, character-adorned materials, likely to maintain a one-day kitchen counter life, only to be relegated to the closet during a clean-sweep. Where’s the happy medium? The attractive AND kid-friendly pieces? The answer? They don’t exist. That is, they didn’t until today!

Lil Light O’ Mine™ hits the scene today to provide moms and children with beautifully-designed teaching tools,Scripture_Card in an effort to help foster character building – as well as charm – in your home.

“Lil Light O‟ Mine™ was conceived with a mom’s style and a child’s heart in mind. It is something we hope shines through in everything we create,” said Courtney DeFeo, the company’s founder.

This marketing-guru, turned stay-at-home mom, turned business owner knows that keeping lessons in front of your child to experience on a regular basis is the most effective way for them to learn. Enter ABC Scripture Cards and My Lil Money Jars. Money_JarsABC Scripture Cards are comprised of 26 tastefully designed 5×7 cards that feature easy-to- remember Bible verses and comes with a 5” easel that allows for a simple, elegant presentation, as well as a magnet for display on your refrigerator. My Lil Money Jars™ features three 5” glass jars that sit inside a custom-crafted wooden tray (available in white, green or pink), teaching children the importance of dividing money into three important groups – Giving. Saving. Spending.

Courtney DeFeo, founder of LLOM, with her daughters

Courtney DeFeo, founder of LLOM, with her daughters

the guide:

order your cards and jars today: www.lillightomine.com

find LLOM on Facebook: www.facebook.com/pages/Lil-Light-O-Mine

ABC Scripture Cards cost: $25, plus shipping

My Lil Money Jars cost: $30, plus shipping

the no-call list

Dear non-profit group/ politician/ clothing pick-up:

I appreciate what you are trying to do. Really. I am all for donating money to the Native American reservations that are running out of food. And I am not in any way against labeling a bag of baby blankets we no longer need and placing them on my front porch for you to pick up between the hours of 7:00 a.m. and 8:00 p.m. And what kind of American would I be if I didn’t give the Democrat/Republican/Independent man or woman a chance to inform me of his/her platform. Yea freedom of speech!

But, for the love of all things holy, STOP CALLING MY HOUSE. Pardon my all-caps explosion, but you need to understand where I am coming from. You see, in Mommyland, there is no “catching you at a good time.” Ummmmm, unless you are calling me at 9:00 p.m. and I have not yet fallen asleep on the couch pretending to still be cool by watching a movie with my husband, there is never a good time.MM_blackphone

Unless you plan on putting my baby back to sleep after the phone rang four times and woke her up, you are not getting my vote. If I didn’t like your policies before I ran down two flights of stairs, almost wrecking a Lego tower on the way, and tripping over a single shoe (because why would the pair be together?!), your pre-recorded message is not exactly going to sway my opinion in your favor. In fact, calling my phone may actually turn me against you.

The moral of the story is: save your funds. Do not cold call my number. It is no use.

I like you, I really do. What I do not like is the drama that ensues when I am distracted by the phone. “Ma’am can I just ask you a few questions?” NO. You may not. Unless you are planning to potty train my child in return for my response, please move to the next name on this list. Unless a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser is the “free gift” I will receive after taking that “quick” survey–so I can remove the lipstick my youngest smeared all over the wall while I was distracted by your call–please take me off your list.

Kindly,

Manic Mom

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Allison is a mother of three, and will probably have up to five if her sanity holds. She and her hubby live in Atlanta, Georgia, and are enjoying the joys and pains of being parents. Mostly, they just laugh a lot. To read more by Allison, click here.

creating a master bedroom retreat using white

Since we’ve moved into our house, our master bedroom has gotten no love. I had decided that I wanted to use white to make a relaxing retreat.

Here is a before photo…and a perfect example of how NOT to use the color white.

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No headboard, no curtains, lumpy-bumpy comforter. It reminds me of a bad dorm room, with the exception of the color on the walls. And because we are renting our home, the wall color had to remain.

Here is a list of everything I needed to get this room out of its bad-dorm-room-funk and into master-bedroom-retreat mode:

• a headboard

• window treatments

• pretty bedding

• a bedside table

• art

The Headboard:

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I wanted to use a piece of architectural salvage as a headboard. I went to the only architectural salvage store in the surrounding area, and decided to use an old 5-panel door. The problem was the price. Just a little more than I wanted to pay. Enter my dear husband who built me a 5-panel door headboard out of old wood from our storage room. We painted it a pale dove gray to match the gorgeous curtain panels I found.

Window Treatments:

I purchased the drapery panels ready-made from IKEA. I hung them at ceiling height to make the room seem taller. The curtain rods I used (not pictured) were pretty much the least expensive ones they had at IKEA. The problem was that they were black, so I spray painted them with Krylon spray paint in a brushed nickel finish…problem solved.

The Pretty Bedding:

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The bedding is the thing that really makes the room and ties the whole color scheme together. One of the keys to decorating with white is texture, and the lovely coverlet on the bed adds that element beautifully and makes the entire bed seem elegant, but comfortable.

A Bedside Table and Art:

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The side table was old and beat up. I gave it a coat of fresh, white paint and it became the perfect partner to the bed. To accessorize the table, I added a lamp that I spray-painted with the Krylon paint I used on the curtain rods. I added a favorite photo of the hubby and me in a silver frame, and for a bit of color some lovely pink stalks in a large vintage canning jar that added to the color scheme. Finally, to finish off the grouping, I added a painting I made of a stylized damask motif.

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Now our neglected master bedroom is a pretty white retreat to relax in at the end of a busy day!

Resources:

Drapery panels, curtain rods (not pictured) and Ofelia Coverlet: IKEA

King size pillows and white pillow cases (gray ribbon detail not included): Target

French photography graphic pillow, crown pillow, gray ruffle pillow and white rosette pillow: available in my Etsy store (theshabbynest.etsy.com)

Clock pillow: won in a drawing

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Wendy is the author of the popular decorator’s blog, The Shabby Nest. Decorating is her passion, and her family is her inspiration. Her goal is to create a warm, welcoming environment without breaking the bank. And she loves to share her ideas with you.

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